tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600877103417913688.post7975103761200657103..comments2022-10-24T07:37:23.187-05:00Comments on Heavy Cupcake: I don't want to...Niki - Heavy Cupcakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14714211782952776278noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600877103417913688.post-26188910947306992542014-04-06T16:50:08.991-05:002014-04-06T16:50:08.991-05:00You know what? Those people can go sit in mud! Jus...You know what? Those people can go sit in mud! Just like you said, you DON'T NEED that kind of negative energy in your life! Haven't they heard the old saying "If you can't say something nice, then don't say anything at all!" ???<br /><br />I absolutely LOVE reading your blogs, and this one hit very close to home, except not. My husband offers me ZERO response to anything. I know I'm smaller. I know I've lost a significant amount. But he doesn't see it or acknowledge it. I think I'd rather have that than him to see me grab a handful of chips one night and say "Aren't you ruining your diet?" or even something more harmful.<br /><br />I've only been following your blog briefly, but I know you are stronger than you think. You are a beautiful woman, and don't let anyone try and tell you different! You know who you are, and that's what's important! So, keep the focus, and don't let your emotions dictate what you put in your body, you'll only regret it and hate yourself -- and the negative Nellys-- more later!Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00734568506481322298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600877103417913688.post-28362013518083012252014-04-01T20:27:43.740-05:002014-04-01T20:27:43.740-05:00I am so sorry that people were not supportive! Wei...I am so sorry that people were not supportive! Weight loss is the hardest thing and without support, it is nearly impossible. I was just posting about this on MFP today--I am an analyst for a law enforcement agency, so the majority of my coworkers are in very good shape, yet I get ridiculed for eating raw vegetables for snacks and teased about not eating whatever candy or baked good is on the conference room table. I try to make a joke out of it, but it really hurts. Like I think about eating my snacks in the stairwell or lunch in my car. If I didn't have my family behind me, I would probably give up. <br />If you think following Dr Oz's plan will help you and you want to save your cheat meal for Vegas (that's a good plan, if you ask me), I say go for it! They don't have to live in your body or eat your food!Sarah @ Back to Carolinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16872923498201700713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600877103417913688.post-14350334763693375522014-04-01T20:13:26.483-05:002014-04-01T20:13:26.483-05:00I'm so sorry you had to have your bubble buste...I'm so sorry you had to have your bubble busted. I know how you feel. My husband loves me, but he doesn't get it and doesn't give me the support I need. He offers me ice cream to be nice, but when I say no, he won't take it at face value. I ended up joining a weight loss support group (TOPS - go check out their website) for support. There I am around like minded people who support and encourage me for any loss and help me get back on track for any gain. I would love for my husband to ask me how I made out when I come home on Tuesday, but he doesn't. I would love him to sound really excited for me when I lose a pound, but he doesn't. <br />I know how you feel, but know I am proud of you and am here to root you on!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12964350598410764765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600877103417913688.post-28904351082881040092014-04-01T12:10:27.697-05:002014-04-01T12:10:27.697-05:00Oh man, that sucks!
If it helps, even a teensy, ti...Oh man, that sucks!<br />If it helps, even a teensy, tiny bit, you've got a great online community supporting you every step of the way.<br />There will always be people who don't want you to change, because change is hard for them to handle. <br />YOU CAN DO IT!Running Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16603049623709715312noreply@blogger.com